how important is age? how important is location?
Lets say you specified your desired age and location, and got the set of results. Now what???
are looks important for the first contact? | Forum
Admin Marisa
Oct 14 '16
how do you determine whom to contact? do you just look at the pictures or use some other criteria?
johnc23
Oct 16 '16
In the natural world looks can muster a thousand things all in one go which when annualized becomes 'falling in love'. There are way to guide this happening and they are the sites that you are on NOW! To sum up then, simply, yes looks do mean a lot & that's on both sides!
VeloVelo
Oct 17 '16
Yes, of course, especially for the initial spark of interest. And of course, after getting to know someone, looks lose their degree of importance.
selwynq
Oct 22 '16
Looks is important from certain perspective, like the person you may be interested in must first look healthy... Then you would expect them to look well groomed as an indication that they are taking good care of themselves.
cliffr
Oct 24 '16
Yes because however evolved we like to think we are the physical attraction is usually the first step in wanting to get to know someone better.
King95
Oct 25 '16
To me looks is important to a certain degree. Looks does not make the person. Beauty is inside and out.
mankien5023
Oct 26 '16
Look is not important... most important is the quality and the attitude of the person whether he/she is good,honest and loyal to the relationship or not...example is if a woman so pretty and cute but her attitude is not good and always flirting with other guys then what good is it?
Bagler
Nov 1 '16
I thinks looks are important at first contact because it tells the other person that i come to you at my best
isle
Nov 8 '16
looks are almost all you have to go on before contact
but once conversation starts other things take over
jasons
Nov 17 '16
looks are very important.. there has got to be a physical attraction between two people
Gringo
Nov 20 '16
Physical beauty is not all that important to me, but rather the personality of the other person. She could be thin, average or slightly large with what would be considered average features. I am no Dwayne Johnson, but am a happy, relaxed easy going person, and to have a pleasant long term relationship, personality is the most important thing. A lot of the female posts seem to place emphasis on looks, sexuality, and the desire for a free ride,that turns me off immediately. I prefer an average pleasant non-pretentious woman.
forgottenone
Nov 25 '16
looks can play a part in any relationship. but what really gets to me is personality you can read a lot in just what is said in first meetings
susana23
Nov 26 '16
You have to have some kind of physical attraction. If that is not there the chance of actually getting to know the other person is relatively small. Personinatilly and intelligence are big factors, but chemistry is a very important beginning.
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davidj23456
Dec 7 '16
We live in a Society that demand perfection, the perfect body. and those that achieve it are treated like gods. and others who don't fit in with what today's society dictates are shunned and looked down upon. it's not a question of "are looks important..." it's a question of necessity and survival. In today's society "looks" in most cases, is the deciding factor.
Moderator spectrumAU
Dec 7 '16
So, look good or miss out! 
I don't think society is quite that far gone but we all have certain aspects or features that we particularly like or dislike. Which is just as well or we'd all be chasing George Clooney or Angelina Jolie.
