hey and welcome to DnM, cyborgjrf.
the easiest way to find people of interest is to push the button near the top marked search. Enter in
your criteria, then search for members meeting your criteria. After you
get results send Private Message(s) (PM's) or IM's ( instant messages) if they are online to the people you think you
might get along with.
You can also participate here in the forums, just add your 2 cents into
the threads you want. Or, start new topics that interest you just like
you did here to introduce yourself. There are groups to join, polls to
answer ( or create if you wish). You can post videos, and probably more
that I just can't think of at this minute.
welcome to our little corner of the w w w . have fun while you are here is the most important thing.