Biggest mistakes in relationship | Forum
Lytharia
Feb 8 '17
Lack of integrity, loyalty, honesty and trust. Details can be worked out, but each has to stick to the agreements made or renegotiate. It is about both people in the relationship and there is and must be sacrifice and compromise ... not to eithers detriment. Pick your battles for what is the most important and if you can't work it out ... be adult enough to agree to disagree or say it just won't work.
stevenj
Nov 19 '17
I think giving up, it takes two, but when one stops, a relationship can't be carried by one person for very long.
CLEVE
Oct 2 '21
EMPATHY IS LIKE OXYGEN TO A RELATIONSHIP. HOW WE LISTEN IS WHERE IT STARTS,
IT NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO JUST LISTEN. WE NEED TO DO IT IN A WAY THEY KNOW WE
HEARD THEM , AND WE ''GET IT'' AND ITS O.K. THAT WE FEEL OR THINK WHAT WE DO.
THE FIRST STEP TO REFLECT BACK WHAT YOU THINK YOU HEARD, AND ASK IF YOU
GOT IT CORRECT.....THEN ASK IF THERE IS MORE TO IT. VALIDATE THEM BY LETTING
THEM KNOW YOU CAN SEE THE SENSE THEY ARE MAKING .....LASTLY TELL THEM YOU
SEE WHY THEY FEEL THE WAY THEY DO. WHAT CREATES PROBLEMS IS THE WAY WE
RELATE TO EACH OTHER IE. RELATIONSHIP STYLE......1- MIRRORING BACK WHAT YOU
HEARD. 2- VALIDATING 3- EMPATHY ...........GOOD LUCK.....
