I think that age has some importance because we are to an extent creatures of habit. What I mean to say is that at different stages of our lives we focus on different aspects. When we look for work fresh out of school, our first marriage, wanting a family, buying the house, buying a bigger house when the kids become teenagers, getting a better job to pay for it, off loading the kids as the become adults, moving to a nice place to retire. I think that it is good if both the man and woman are reading from the same page, as it were, and planning these goals together. I believe in the old saying, "Grow old disgracefully together!"