So relax and have a chat. :)
Have fun.
hi there and welcome, Hapiness. There are FAQ's at the bottom of every page here to help you navigate the site. As far as finding someone goes, go to the search page, enter your criteria in the boxes, then click search.
its best to visit the profiles of the people that show in the results then send the ones that really interest you some form of "notice me" offering. Such as a virtual gift, or a Private Message (PM).