Dating in a marriage | Forum
Bhuda
Sep 27 '18
My belief is that in marriage we should continue creating that romantic love by going out on date. That creates a more harmonious and smooth flowing relationship and a better way of Communication between couples.sleeping out at a hotel at least once in two or three months ,going to adventure places and also to have some fun games to play together at home creates that peaceful ,lovely and enjoyable Environment.
BlackPine
Dec 17 '19
I agree...
After many hours of seminars on Marriage Enrichment and Training,
I completely agree that "dating" is more important AFTER the wedding
than before it...
Before the wedding, "dating" can and is often used simply to get into the others pants or panties.
(my personal opinion)
AFTER the wedding, it is used to give the couple some time away from home-life and the concerns that places on ones mind. A time to try new things, new places, new activities, and keep the excitement and newness of the union going strong.
If there are children or other family members, some time away from those distractions is ALWAYS helpful, and assist in coming back to the home/family unit with renewed zeal and intent.
Bruce
After many hours of seminars on Marriage Enrichment and Training,
I completely agree that "dating" is more important AFTER the wedding
than before it...
Before the wedding, "dating" can and is often used simply to get into the others pants or panties.
(my personal opinion)
AFTER the wedding, it is used to give the couple some time away from home-life and the concerns that places on ones mind. A time to try new things, new places, new activities, and keep the excitement and newness of the union going strong.
If there are children or other family members, some time away from those distractions is ALWAYS helpful, and assist in coming back to the home/family unit with renewed zeal and intent.
Bruce
CLEVE
Oct 6 '21
I ALSO AGREE. RELATIONSHIPS REQUIRE INPUT TO STAY HEALTHY....THE PURPOSE OF
OUR EARLY RELATIONSHIPS ARE TO FINISH CHILDHOOD AND SHOULD BE HEALING AND
WITH GROWTH.....WHAT WE ARE REALLY LOOKING FOR IS TO RECYCLE FAVORITE
FEELINGS AND VALIDATE ARE BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS....MOST ARE
STUCK IN THE DRAMA TRIANGLE, PLAYING GAMES. WHAT KEEPS MY FAITH IN HUMAN
NATURE IS THERE ARE A FEW PEOPLE PEOPLE WORKING ON UNRESOLVED ISSUES,
LEARNING, AND LOVING THEMSELVES AND OTHERS WITHOUT ULTERIOR
MOTIVES....WE ARE A WORK IN PROGRESS......
