Hi and welcome to DnM, Rhonda. Collectively we are an international site and it would not surprise me at all if there is no one near the specific location you mentioned. But use the search or members buttons, enter in the criteria you are looking for then see what the results of the search are. if something does appear in the results then visit the profile(s) and send some type of "get noticed" such as a virtual gift or even a Private Message (PM) if you like what you see in their profile.
in between searches or waiting for answers you can ask and
answer poll questions, join or create group(s). Upload, vote on, comment
on videos and pictures, participate in the forums, and probably more
stuff than that too. Many of those things I mentioned also earn you site
credits to use for sending gifts, PM's, and other stuff here on the
site.
The FAQ's are located at the bottom of every page, and if you have a
question about the site the FAQ's don't answer there is a help forum as
well. if you still can't find your answer you can post the question in
the help forum or ask one of the staff if it is more personal and you
don't want the public to know about it.