hi and welcome to DnM, Jo Ellen.
an easy start is to use the search button,
enter the criteria you are looking for. See the results ( read peoples
profiles) and the ones that interest you send them "notice me" items
such as virtual gifts or maybe even a. Private message (PM).
you can also ask and answer poll questions. Upload, vote on, comment on
pictures and videos. Join groups and/or create a new group. Say hi to
someone or get yourself noticed sending a gift. Post on other people's
walls, and probably more than that too here.
there are FAQ's at the bottom of each page. and a help
forum if you can't find the answer to your question in the FAQ's. And if
your question is too personal to post in a public forum you can PM a staff member (also found in the Help forum).
have fun and good luck finding what you want.
I played on the site a bit yesterday to get a feel of the website!! It is nice meeting you !!!
Jo Ellen