Hi and welcome to DnM jasminah. We do try to keep the place clean in here. But some dirt does occasionally get in

its good if you always stay cautious until you feel very comfortable with anyone. Also always keep in mind that until you have met the person you are communicating with, they are a stranger to you.
here is a nice little read :
https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/topic/106
there are things to do around here such as ask and answer poll questions, participate here in the forums. Upload, vote on, comment on photos and videos. join or create groups. Post to other people's walls, send gifts and even private messages. Maybe even more than that, too.
Have fun and good luck finding what you seek.