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Willi Jan 6 '18

Hi to everyone on this site !

Joining DnM is quite an unusual experience, as hopefully no scammers will be around here, and members are actually looking for what they state in their profiles.

So, what am I looking for ? It is one of the most difficult things go find: a faithful and loving woman to share my life with. So far this has not worked out for me, but I am hopeful and optimistic.

I am ready to make the necessary commitment.

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billyHill Jan 6 '18

Hi and welcome to DnM Willi. I've seen other posts from you and answering polls so I think you have a good grip on the software here. There are FAQ's at the bottom of each page if you do need assistance in that regard.

we do our best to keep scammers out, I think it would be worth your reading this topic : https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/topic/106

The rest i believe is up to you and the person / people you interact with. I met my wife on this site about 12 years ago, and we just celebrated out 11th anniversary see this topic : https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/topic/949 note it is dated 2016, i have not put an 11 year topic up yet.

the basics are to search for what you think you want by inputting your criteria in the search box. Then get someone's attention either by gift, PM, or writing on their wall. then interact with them and keep it real on both sides. in short mostly that means keep yourself from falling into a mostly or strictly emotional entanglement that has no basis in fact. Friendships start slow. The truth and fact of the matter is you are both technically strangers until you have met in person and face to face. email and video chats do not count to make real friends. they may count towards it, but do not make it true.

Good luck in your search. I don't mean to sound like a buzz kill so if it sounds that way to you that was not my intention. Look at the part that talks about me & my wife again, it is possible.

Willi Jan 6 '18

Thanks for your good advice, and congratulations to finding the woman of your dreams ! Actually I should congratulate her just as well on finding a husband, who does worthwhile work.

I can believe you fully, because I too had found a wonderful woman online, and that on a web site, which is infested by fakes and scammers. Yes, we met in person and fell in love surprisingly quickly. We planned our wedding, but one week before she passed away unexpectedly of a heart attack. So I hope, that I will be lucky another time.

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billyHill Jan 7 '18

OMG I can't imagine what that was like to go through. wow.. I'm stumped for words now. I guess good luck is all I can come up with. And if you believe like me, there is a reason for everything. We may not know it, or like it, but there is a reason and it is not up to us to decide good or bad reason, either.

Willi Jan 7 '18

Thanks, your reply is much appreciated

Life has to go on for the survivors, and some people are more, others less fortunate. The only thing we all can do is to accept the inevitable, then make the best of it. Still I am optimistic !

Willi Jan 12 '18

Thank you so much, it does give me some extra hope. At my age it is surely much harder to find a good partner, and I can only go on searching. Somewhere out ther must be the right one, maybe I needsome extra luck ?

I am wishing you and your husband all the love there is and the happines, that everyone deserves (except those unbelievably ruthless scammers).

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