Most of us here have been scammed, it's the reason the majority of members joined this site. So I think you have to decide which is more important to you... security or distance.
I came across you as was fed up with scammers trying their luck on FB and found a link to you whilst doing a reverse image search which was a breath of fresh air so thank you for running this site.
I will do all I can to support it and hope to find the one…