I am a 55 year old white women, 5'5 and a couple of extra pounds ( really not too many). My special needs daughter lives with me and I work part time. I am looking for a gentleman over 53 years old who does not smoke ( I don't like kissing ash trays) and only drinks occasionally if at all. He must be self supporting and not living with mom. He must drive and be willing to deal with a special needs child of mine that lives with me full time.