billa
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| Username | billa |
| I am | Male |
| Age | 82 y.o. |
| Here for | Fun, Friendship, Romance |
| Looking for | Female |
| My match's age | from 25 to 65 |
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| Marital status | widowed |
| Children | 1-2 living elsewhere |
| Sexual Orientation | Straight |
| Ethnicity | white |
| Religion | Christian |
| Do you smoke | non-smoker |
| Do you drink | never |
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| About me | Most folks would not believe the situation I find myself in. So much for planning my life instead of Letting go and Letting GOD. I am a widower with grown children who live far from her and seldom visit. I like people, have had an unusual introduction to life but managed to stay away from trouble. Most of my friends were 4-5 years older as my pier group were a little too childish for me. I was a councelor in training at camp when I was 14 and 15, kind of a nerd with girls and did not get my first goodnight kiss until I was 14. I love to dance, do not drink or smoke but music is my real turn on along with showing off whomever I am with. I like attractive women with brains, I am more intrigued with their minds and ideas than the physical side because eventually we all get attacked by the wrinkle squad. I think they work at night cause I never can catch them during the day. I am a GOD fearing Church going man I own my own condo without a mortgage and live on a fixes income of under 30,000 a year but I do have a prudent reserve in case of a global financial problem which I look for all the time. I really care about people as it is very well documented people are a product of their childhood and mine was not all that great. But I enlisted in the Marines and graduated number one in a class of 600. I am a recovered alcoholic without a drink for 33 years but I only go to AA meetings a couple of times a month. I have no desire to drink or drug. I tried grass once and it made me so paranoid I never would use it again. I have had far more success's than failures in business and even when drinking I could hide it pretty well. Never been arrested or charged with any crime and am a lot of fun to be with most anyplace I go. I am a late bloomer looked like a kid until I turned forty and now I can get away with looking in my sixty's if I want. I am attracted to auburn or reddish brown hair and green eyes with a decent build who is a lady in the parlor and when she is ready is who ever she wants to be in private. I enjoy people that like to think and discuss subject not usually in the headlines as they are just too controversial but I do want my date to know that I am not racist in any manner, have served 6 years most of which was overseas and love boats. I oppose abortion and support the 2nd amendment. Started my career as a Marine and was going to make a career out of it until I married my prom queen and after only three months she could not accept that I could be called out on a phone call be gone for 6 weeks where she never knew where I was and not be able to talk to much about it to her when I got back. So when It was time for me to reenlist I was offered 4 years of college at a very prestigious institution however I had to maintain a B+ average. I did not worry about that until it came to English as it is my worse subject and to get a B would be the best I would be able to achieve. So she wanted to go home and it was a choice of annulling the marriage but she was pregnant and I was not going to leave her alone in that condition as I knew where my next assignment was going to be. She would be able to live in Hawaii but I would be gone at times for 13 months. and she could not handle that. I am probably the most honest man you have ever met but I do have difficulty when I answer a question. I lack tact. I just learned to spell the word but I will always tell the truth and depending what the question is I usually give more truth that people want to hear. I have a lot of good sides, I know women are far smarter than men and about 3 years more mature if they are close in age. I am entering my second childhood. I lost my wife of 31 years in 2014 and went though a year of withdrawing into my condo as I am the last of my family except for thee children two of which are from my first marriage and were poisoned against me with cause as I was drinking heavily then. I have never hit a woman can't say the same about a man. I can be patient and understanding but if someone gets out of control with whoever I am out with I will let her handle the situation unless it becomes too much for her and all she needs to do is just step behind me and I will do my best to quietly get the person to leave you alone. I will use the house security if necessary but in the event of someone out of control I am capable of protecting whoever I am with. I am a former deputy from Berkshire County MA and was Chief of Police for Central New England College in a bad section of Worcester Ma. Most of my business is in finance and bank transportation. I was married a second time for 14 years and my son who is a Marine Master Sgt is my pride and joy. That marriage dissolved in alcohol as together we both got involved in the open marriage phase of the 70"s and early 80;s by than I knew I had to stop drinking and spent 10 years on the speaker circuit where I met my soul mate who did not want to ever fall in love again because of a bad marriage of 20 years and a great career that she worked her way up to from the employment department to executive secretary for the vice president of a 5 Billion dollar computer company. She brought me back the principals values and ethics I had lost while drinking and we formed a bank courier company together when I was 45 that ran until the dot com bubble burst in 1990. We had a lot of fun as we both enjoyed what we did, she was almost a prisoner in he first marriage and loved the things that I was into. We were very much into people and GOD opened a window for us in June of 1988 a bank president I had worked with for years called me in to get rates to take him and several other local Keene NH banks to CT nightly as the Fed was about to close a bunch of savings and loans. I had worked with him with four different armored car companies as my jobs consisted into going into these large private companies and bringing them into compliance and our of the red and into the black while straightening out their tax and security problems and by adding Millions of dollars in sales to the revenue. It took about 2.5 years to do one of these companies and when It was done they had no further need of my services. I was to say it kindly a hatchet man. I usually had another company waiting in the wings for my service and again they mostly had more than 50 to 150 employees and I did this four times until my third wife decided she liked what I did and I always had and executive secretary even from when I started as a district auditor for General Motors. During the good times and even when things became rough I would hold up to three jobs at a time to keep the bills paid and food on the table. I am a good provider. At the height of the S Corporation we made good money but the dot com bubble killed the corporation. We hung on for a few years and finally after many difficulties with her two daughters we moved to Florida in 2002. Her girls would come usually once a year to visit with their father who remarried into big money and besides owning a large home in a prestige area of MA he bought a condo in Naples so the girls only spent about 8 hours on one day with their mother and that made her very angry and the relationship went downhill from there. We made an agreement that neither one of us would put the other in a nursing home and a bad diagnosis was made on my wife and she was diagnosed with altzheimers and dementia when in reality she had two dead spots on her brain from where she was run over with a bicycle as a teen. I spent 53 months caring for her and in that time our house found a sinkhole so she was in and out of nursing homes after breaking a hip in a fall and again breaking her back in a fall in a nursing home. So our contents of 130,000 including her 21,000 grand piano and all of our furniture had to be destroyed as the entire house was contaminated with mold. The insurance company was terrible and they forced us into accepting 35,000 for the contents and left us with the house that the county had devalued from 159.000 to 4700 due to the sinkhole. A crooked attorney lost that case and with us on fixes incomes we moved into this nice condo where it was easier for me to care for her. All of her doctors agreed she did much better at home than in a nursing home. After she passed I was broken my soul mate who I never kissed until I had know her for 18 months was called home by GOD'S Angels. I managed to scrape up enough to buy the condo as the owner had about 18 pieces of property and many were not paying so I got it at a deal. I fix a bit here and there but it just needs a great cleaning and some newer furniture. I lost my brother and sister while caring for my wife and this place is ok when the snowbirds are here. there is something to do in the clubhouse 6 nights a week for a couple of hours and the folds who are snowbirds have the entertainment under control so we have a lot of fun and can make a few dollars a week playing bingo, canasta, cribbage, darts, texas hold em and dominoes along with Christmas and New years parties and a spring party for those going back north after the end of May. I am really seeking someone who likes to delve into subjects like their ideas of Heaven or the after live, the possibilities of multiple universes and loves movies and dancing and music and giving and getting affection in public as well as in private. I am a gentleman and have never embarrassed a woman nor do I have any intention of. Once again I am going to repeat I was an internal auditor for GM for seven years sold my stock and invested in hard assets starting in 1972, I am probably am the most honest man you will ever know because I will answer any question you have in as much detail as you want it. I am 5'10 and carry about 195 pounds depending how often I get to the pool. I try to get there every day if the weather allows. I am very particular who I get involved with and understand that most women like men of our general ages are very vulnerable and do not want to hurt anyone emotionally nor get hurt myself. I love to walk or drive in the country of central Florida, I do live on a limited income but have enough to keep my credit score up and have a few dollars left over at the end of the month to play with. I also have a prudent reserve elsewhere. My wife and I had to buy an armed security company in New Hampshire and I have been licensed to carry since 1963. I have only had to take it out of the holster 4 times in all of those years and never had to discharge it. I am a veteran and spent most of my time in the south Pacific although I have been everywhere from Alaska to New Zealand yet due to my duties I am not able to discuss the nature of the work I did while I was there. My honorable discharge lists me as a non commissioned officer with a good conduct ribbon and several others including a Presidential Unit Citation as I was attached to the point unit of 5000 men of the Fourth Marine Expeditionary Brigade and spent a lot of time at sea and loved it. I am very interested in your interests. I mentioned the work we did because we had two motor homes over the years and we enjoyed traveling off the beaten path ( the super highways) to locate great little places like the outer banks, the Dockside restaurant in Beaufort SC. when we were in the area we would attend a graduation of New Marines at Parris Island on Fridays and check out the area where the movie Prince of Tides was filmed. We also stayed on route 17 down the coast and into Savannah GA and on to where she was raised in south central FL where her friend she grew up with and her relatives lived. We went to a few family reunions and to a great Thanksgiving. I hunted turkey with her uncle and we also worked on his swamp buggy. He is passed now as most are still I try to keep contact with her girls sending things that I believe their mother would have wanted them to have. I am not ready to roll over and die so I am looking for someone who is financially secure as my assets are already left to my only son who has four children and was surprised after 25 years of marriage that his wife had found someone else. He handled it a lot better than I think I would have. I was given some special gifts by GOD because I grew up without a family and they consist of the ability to sense what someone is feeling, if they are telling the truth or trying to cover up something. I put my baggage on the table in this bio so no one is surprised. I can go anywhere anyone wants to go. I do like to attend church on Sunday and visit my wife's resting place and change the flowers at different times of the year. I hope that I can find someone that like the thing that I do, I like the holidays especially Thanksgiving Christmas and New Years and Mothers day. I respect family and will fit with most people am a good listener with an above average IQ and memory retention. I tend to take things apart that don't quite make sense to me. I have a lot of professional friends and the easiest way to explain it is that I get along very well with doctors. Once they understand that I know what they went though during their internship and find that I have the same ability to hold 15-17 subjects in my mind at the same time and be involved in five different discussions each on a different subject without getting confused they and I make immediate friends. There are three notes in my medical file to doctors cautioning them not to try and blow something by me because I probably know more about how my body responds to different medications than they do. This can cause me a problem in a group of people if I get in multiple conversations. So I stay away form the very heavy subjects like gun control, abortions, the world economy, religion, taxes and the laws because I am familiar with most all of both sides of these issues and my opinions do not always agree with others. I do not make public that I am a recovered alcoholic as it makes people that drink uncomfortable but I do tell them the truth that I do take medication that I cannot mix with alcohol as it causes an allergic and life threatening condition. I hope I a have not bored you and want anyone who chooses to answer this to please feel free to be open as I am an understanding man and accept that most people carry some things around with them that make them uncomfortable. To me GOD DOES NOT MAKE JUNK. and you are not responsible for the actions of others. Hope we get a chance to chat and get to know each other. I hope to find someone that is as interested in enjoying as much of the rest of their life having fun and feeling loved, needed, appreciated and wanted as I am an affectionate man who knows his limits but is not afraid to show my feelings. hope to hear from someone that is not looking for a free ride, I have been though that on another site and the scammers are every where that is why I put so much information in the story of who I am. GOD BLESS and I pray he brings into your life the person you are looking for. (h) |
