G'day Jennifer and welcome to DnM. You can join in the forums, play some games or just use the search feature to find someone compatible to send a message to. You can be as active, or inactive, as you wish. Good luck in your search.
Hi Irina689, welcome to DnM. if you follow the advice SpectrumAU gave above your post chances are good you can at least have fun finding what you seek.
If you need any help with the site itself there are FAQ's at the bottom of each page, and a help forum here : https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/28 if you can't find the answer you want in the FAQ's.