I am a Sufi Muslim (a dervish), and have been married for nearly 20 years. My wife left in in June. She wanted to "be free" and tired of monogamy. There is a bit more to the story, but that is it. Dating or looking for a new mate is something I am not used to. In fact, I have only ever corresponded with new women. Nothing more. I am very much interested in religion, mysticism, the paranormal, and alternative healing modalities. Earlier in life I was an ordained Lutheran minister in a very small subdenomination of Lutheranism. Ultimately, I am searching for a new wife. But, all good things start out small.