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For example, if somebody tells you shouldn't wear this shirt or dress because you look fat or skinny it it? (and that's truth!) Or they tell you that you should change your profile picture because it's no good (and it's also truth!). Is it honesty or rudeness / bluntness? Where do you draw the line?
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Usually, blunt people are not viewed as "nice". Others try to avoid them, they are sort of troublemakers in any community. That's because most people like truth about others, they even demand it, but absolutely cannot tolerate truth about themselves. That means they cannot say they like "honesty". Their "honesty" has a double standard.
True or false?
I am what some would call blunt, others call it rude. It is a double edged sword. When people really want an answer, they'll ask me, if they just want to feel good, they'll ask someone else.
Although I've done well, it is typically not a trait if you're looking for career advancement.
I expect people to be blunt with me as well, doesn't always make me feel good but gives me a reason to reflect upon myself and try to be a better man going forward.
I can say I prefer honesty more than being bluntness honesty is the best policy I rather for someone to truthful than being around the bush.
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That being said; You have to use tact and decorum..
What came of all this? One or two actual meetings, one girl friend who spent 10,000€ of mine on plane tickets and other things before ditching me.
Please, please, please if you are not interested, just say so politely. Don't satisfy your ego by making huge collections of suitors you really have no interest in. That practice, Latina hobby number one in Chile, hurts terribly, getting our hopes up only to be disappointed. Gringos have feelings, too I will never go to Chile again.
