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REALLY didn't expect a man to react tht way at THT age, seriously.
Am assumming tht such trait is very rare in a man? Or all men wld react tht way???
ModeratorI have to agree with what Wind and Colorado both say. Your lack of an answer of yes, no, or anything speaks volumes without saying a word. exactly what the other person thought is only known to him. If it was me, I probably would have thought "I don't need to be treated like this", and never spoken to you again. Unless of course you came back later with an excuse of a life or death emergency situation.
I think it is also worth adding that as far as things go, you were the one asking the question. So when Colorado answered it, it is far from polite or even good taste to answer her back with such a statement.
We are all human, we all have either made mistakes and/ or still make them. Trying to deflect what might be a defect in your character (and it might be an asset, depends on your point of view) onto someone else is completely uncalled for, especially when it was you asking the question about yourself. She did exactly what you asked, then it seems like you back handed her because she gave you her honest opinion.
siigghh ... They say that women over-analyse things but ...
It also happened to me 3 yrs ago but in a different situation. I happened to make some remarks that the guy misunderstood as prejudicial on him so he blatantly told me good bye and said I am not the kind of woman he was looking for. I sent him a "sorry" card and remained silent. After a few months he messaged me that he is still interested to know me and hope i do the same. i accepted him again and again apologized and he said there's no need for an apology. Our friendship was rekindled again but I'm more careful with my comments now.
I do understand that this is an international dating site and everybody's welcome from all parts of the globe as long as you follow the rules set by the site administrators. But you have to consider that coming from different countries or regions or whatever, we have also different traditions, culture, values and upbringing. So don't impose your rules since we may be following another rule. As long as we don't offend anybody, extend proper courtesy, no offensive language or porno pics we are within the parameters of the rules and regulations set forth in the site.
I never imagined being silent as rudeness to others. What I know is that if you have nothing good to say then it is better to shut your mouth. Even a fish can get out of trouble if it shut its mouth!
Are the forums not the place to state individual opinions and such? I concurr tht i did make a mistake in THT relationship so don't get ur "knickers in a knot" with AC for her views, k? Chill, W. :-)
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I am locking this topic as it turned into a fight, it's no longer an opinion exchange. No need to escalate it any further.
