Hi and welcome to DnM, Kittykat. While it may be helpful to introduce yourself in the forum, I would strongly recommend you add most if not all of what you wrote into the "description" (essay) part of your profile.
Be warned however that just because you put it there does not mean that anyone will read it. Lots of people just look at pictures, its just the way things are. Often there are language barriers too, this is an international site. Different cultures have different ways of thinking, too.
Also while I can understand the emotion, there is no real need TO YELL WHILE YOU ARE POSTING (all capital letters) in the forum. Nearly all of us on this site have been scammed in some way, shape, or form so most of the population is on extreme alert about such a thing happening again. If somehow you believe violates the TOU (terms of use) https://datingnmore.com/site/terms-of-use of this site then please contact the staff https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/topic/66 about it (along with your proof) so we can deal with that individual.
The FAQ's are located at the bottom of every page, and if you have a
question about the site the FAQ's don't answer there is a help forum https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/28
as
well. if you still can't find your answer please post the question in
the help forum. chances are good you are not the only one with that
question so you are helping everyone by posting your question. or ask
one of the staff if it is more personal and you
don't want the public to know about it.