hi and welcome to DnM, pasteeater. ( I'm kind of curious about that nickname see this topic :
https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/topic/55 ) . There are FAQ's at the bottom of every page should you want them, a help forum, or you can PM a staff member if the issue is too personal to post in the help forum.
you can ask / answer polls, upload, vote on, and comment on pics and videos. post on people's walls, create and/or join groups, and probably more than that here.
Good luck and have fun