hi and welcome to DnM, dianec. I see you've learned how to use the forum here and you are welcome to keep using it. There are also groups to join or create, pictures and videos to view, vote on, comment on. Polls to answer or create. As well as search for your special someone, friend, or whatever it is you seek.
The site is reasonably self explanatory, but if you have a question try the FAQ's at the bottom of each page, the help forum, or contact one of the staff to help out.
Good luck finding what you seek.