I would say that it is and it isn't important *rolls her eyes* (I know the duality of it all LOL). What is ones definition of attractive and beautiful? I am certainly not a model ... but make no mistake that men notice me in a room. Unfortunately, in a long distance and/or online relationship ... you don't have the same sizzle you would have in person. Maybe someone had a bad hair day or something in that picture. The things we fall in love with that you cannot see or hear here .. a persons laugh, their scent, the way their expression graces their face. For me its eyes ... the exterior of a man fades away in "those" eyes. How can I describe them? They are all different colors, shapes, sizes. Ones physical attraction is so much more than a stagnant picture of a moment in time. Those nuances and what each person thinks and feels is attractive are whats important. I can airbrush my face or a photo .. but then I become a deceiver and that is uglier than anything else I can imagine.