Hi and welcome to DnM, Kathyc2.
I think it is a fair statement that the good majority of us here on this site have been scammed in the past. And the fact is, romance scammers are the biggest scum on earth. The admin runs a pretty tight ship here on this site. It isn't a massive site, but very rarely do we ever see a scammer slip through the cracks and stay here longer than a day, if that.
See this warning for more info on how safe the site actually is :
https://datingnmore.com/site/forum/topic/106
You can Search for people using the search
button near the top. Enter the criteria in the boxes, then send Private
messages ( PM's) to those that you think you may get along with. ( or Instant Messages IM if they are online).
Have fun and enjoy your stay here on our little corner of the w w w .
You are more than welcome to participate here in the forums, too. Just
add in your opinions wherever you think they fit. Or start new topics
like you did here to introduce yourself
you can also join groups, start one if you think we need more.... post
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